What you're reporting is indeed a bug, but it doesn't have anything to do with the forums, per se; it's my server, and this happens across all the sites that I host where the server will randomly bork form submissions by dropping the connection
In the meantime, even when the server doesn't do this, given the lack of auto-save on posts/PMs, I've always recommended that folks write their messages in an email or other document editor that does have auto-save, and then paste the message into the forum editor when you're ready; if something happens, you just re-load the form and paste again. I've looked into adding an auto-save feature to the boards, but the last time I looked it took too much work to accomplish.