As long as I lead a rich, fulfilling, happy life, and i am a good person
the point that i am trying to make is that i can still be a good person without religion. I do not need god, or an absence of god for that matter, in order to keep me in balance and keep me from doing bad things.
The problem with the theory that you can live a "good" life without believing in God is without God, who is to say what a good life is? If you take away absolute truth about what is right and wrong, good or bad, then anything goes. How can you know what a good life is, if you don't know what "good" is? You can't.
i am in complete control of my life. No other force can change that.
You really think that? There are many different forces that control your life and I'm not even talking about God. Your parents, society, nature, etc. all have/had some sort of control over your life. So saying that you are in COMPLETE control of your life, is simply wrong.
Also did you ever watch Contact? Part of that movie is about the existence of God, and for the most part, I agree with Ellie (the main character), but when Palmer Joss asks if she loves her father, and then after she said yes, he said to explain that, and she couldn't answer him, and he explained that that's how he explains that God exists...that part made me wonder.
I use this example a lot to show that you can't prove or explain everything in life. Given that fact, I think any logical person would NOT be able to say for sure that God does not exist.
Consider this, I love my parents. I know for sure I love my parents and nobody can tell me I don't. People could say I don't love my parents because there is no scientific proof and they could ask me to prove that I do, but nothing I could do would prove without a doubt that I love my parents, but that doesn't mean I don't.
What I'm getting at is what you see with your eyes and hear with your ears isn't all there is. So it's not rational to say that because there is no scientific evidence to support the existance of God, it must mean there is no God. You should always consider it an option and keep searching to find out for yourself.
I know in my heart that God exists just like I know I love my parents, but I also know with my mind that believing in God is better than not. The way I see it is, if what I believe is right, then I'm very glad I believe what I do, but if I'm wrong and there is no God, then it doesn't really matter what I believed in my life, now does it? So, believing in God seems much more logical than not.
You don't have to believe in God and I don't believe it's my job to make you, but I do think it's my job to tell you what I believe so that you can make that choice yourself.