Stress

Shredster · Post by **Shredster** » 06 Oct 2004 17:33

HEY PINKUS!

When you finish school, then you'll have more time!

And you're badass anyways with footbag and judo, so don't worry about it :p

C-Fan · Post by **C-Fan** » 06 Oct 2004 18:06

Juan wrote:my right clipper

Juan`s right clipper is stressing me out. Vote democratic!

joplick · Post by **joplick** » 06 Oct 2004 18:45

i am not stressed but i have a load to get off my chest. i have recently become a slut which is by no means a bad thing

. but... one of my beneficial friends is growing emotionally attatched to me and i dont like her like that. and i developed a crush on somebody. which is by no means a bad thing

i really like her but im not going out with her so i figured i could still be a slut. WRONG, i cant and here is why. i did some things with a girl today and now i feel incredibly guilty like i betrayed the girl i like, and it made me feel sad. so i guess im going to have to ask her out now, which is an incredibly hard thing to do, and it is stressing me out. so i guess i am stressed

i cant even sort out my thoughts, and my writing is all sloppy... forgive me.

also me and her have been planning to go out on a date all week (its supposed to be this friday) but she e-mailed me and said that her mom found the marks i left on her neck

. so i dont know if we will be able too anymore. i have to anxiously and painstakingly await the next e-mail she writes me (if her mom didnt ground her for the marks) its sad cause i was more excited to hang out with her than my own 18 b-day. also i have to find a decent job and job hunting has never been an easy thing for me.

also i quit smoking for the __th time and i have not had one for at least a week and the cravings arent getting any better.

and last night i had a session, and i sucked, it felt like i actually got worse during that session. i am so frustrated.

and the saddest thing of all. i just found out one of my favorite friends started smoking crystal meth, and i have no idea how long she has been doing it for.

sorry for the rambling. thanks for the thread.

p.s. the last time i had a crush was around sept. of 2003 and the last time i had a girlfriend was sept. of 2002 so it has been a long time and i have developed weird emotional detachment thingies.

Chris Hanratty · Post by **Chris Hanratty** » 06 Oct 2004 18:47

A few aspects of school aren't going too well. I'm in the early stages of quitting smoking so I can regain my endurance. I can only solo shred for no more than ten minutes and I need to take a big break. I feel like I'm going to snap.

MegaFighter_X · Post by **MegaFighter_X** » 07 Oct 2004 14:08

back's messed up, left big toe is messed, got school, work, and a bit of a social life to worry about. I've no time for footbag, and my priorities suck. And my knee keeps hurting for no reason too...

rory · Post by **rory** » 07 Oct 2004 14:38

school, i cant focus at 7 30 in the morning im falling behind in bio its so crazy, getting used 2 high school is tough

FlexThis · Post by **FlexThis** » 07 Oct 2004 15:56

carl winslow · Post by **carl winslow** » 07 Oct 2004 16:14

that was some good advise
thanks flex, reverse matt damon

crazydwarf · Post by **crazydwarf** » 07 Oct 2004 20:17

Good post Damon, I completly agree with you on pretty much everything, except of course for the sex in college thing no sex for me till I'm married, but I do have to ask you about this statement.

Forget about socializing. You are wasting your time trying to impress people who don't give 2 shits about you or your life and will in no way contribute to your future happiness or wealth.

Um... Damon I hope you arn't telling people that your life will be better if you don't take time to make friends in highschool... admitadly I am only in highschool, but I still think I'm old enough to say that friends are very very impotant. Granted you don't need to be popular or have a ton of good "friends", but I think it's incredibly important to have one or two great friends. I figured you where talking about not needing to be popular, which I agree with, but if you're talking about not having any friends at all, and only focussing on study, I have to completly disagree with you. To me people are more important than a future income. They make my life much better then a higher pay roll would... As I said before, I am only a highschool student, but I love life, and I think I am doing a pretty good job at this whole living thing...[/code]

max · Post by **max** » 08 Oct 2004 00:52

People with Job problems: We all have job problems. Leave them at work and forget they exist. You will be much happier if you can separate reality from work.

reminds me of:

Oh, so you hate your job? Well there's a support group for that, it's called EVERYBODY and they meet at the bar!

innersmile · Post by **innersmile** » 08 Oct 2004 01:21

Oh, so you hate your job? Well there's a support group for that, it's called EVERYBODY and they meet at the bar!

lol, I liked that one.

I guess I'm lucky, I don't hate my job; yet. I am a pretty free bird here and as long as I get results, nobody gives me shit, although I am second in command so nobody but my boss can... I get along with the big man well and enjoy working with him- he has taught me so much about business etc. He built the company from scratch and is really doing well with the figures growing almost expontentially each year. Boring...

Work sucks, yes and if I didn't need the money, I would be here now. But, I have a life outside of the office full of wonderful people and hobbies and lifestyles. I think the job thing can get you down when you have nothing outside to look forward to, just work, sleep, work... Or if you hate the people above you in the corporate ladder.

Work shouldn't be too bad for us shredders since after the bell, we can throw our monkey suits off and get the body moving again; JOY!

I don't really know where I'm going with this... sorry.

FlexThis · Post by **FlexThis** » 08 Oct 2004 08:56

crazydwarf · Post by **crazydwarf** » 08 Oct 2004 18:03

Awsome advice then Damon just wanted to make sure you wheren't suggesting that friends are worthless...