what should i do

shaggster · Post by **shaggster** » 15 Oct 2004 12:16

ok, so there is this girl who likes me and i like her back, but she has a boyfriend who treats her like shit. Last night at a football game we were hanging out and than started holding hands and kissed. But her boyfriend got pissed at her when he gave her a ride home and was yelling at her and she was crying and about the break up with him but she doesnt want to hurt him. Also her boyfriend used to be my best friend like 2 years ago, now he hates me.

So should i still go for her cuz i have a feeling their going to be done soon or should i just move along?

zachatree · Post by **zachatree** » 15 Oct 2004 12:59

If its what u feel is right and u and her like one another, sure go for it all power to ya.

I am kinda in a simular situation, a girl i am waiting on that i have been close friends with for 5 years. she has a boy friend but he is stupid so she is dumping him but like ur girl she dont like break ups and is takeing her time, but she told me "she will wait for me, if i wait for her" and i dont have a better plan this girl i really like and can see one hell of a futer with and i plan on dateing her in time, and i find waiting is worth the wait. If u feel the same way maybe u should just chill out, but if i where u play it smart, i dont touch other guys girls i hang out with her all the time, but if ur gonna kiss her and shit at least dont do it in public where ppl are gonna go tell her boy, bc he may get really pissed and it may not lead to break up it may lead to u geting ur face kicked in, LUCKY you have strong legs so u can kick back or run fast

just playing look just do what your heart feels is right man if this is a chick u really are diggen go for it fuck if she cant break up for her self go tell the son of a bitch i have done this befor, *warning* it ended in a fight, in witch i broke my knucle witch is still broken to this day, i need to go get it re-broken and i evened up not diggen the girl as much as what i used to... and i would take that punch back if i could, but i cant.

play it smart bro, keep shreding.

Tsiangkun · Post by **Tsiangkun** » 15 Oct 2004 13:14

When given the option to regret something you did or something you didn't do, it makes the most sense to regret having done something.

mosher · Post by **mosher** » 15 Oct 2004 13:52

..or someone.

zachatree · Post by **zachatree** » 15 Oct 2004 14:25

mosher wrote:..or someone.

^ werd !!!!!!!

Spadrick · Post by **Spadrick** » 15 Oct 2004 17:29

You know that saying; "Its better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all."? It's true.

If he treats her like shit and your gonna treat her like a princess, then power to the pauper man.

GL.

Jeremy · Post by **Jeremy** » 15 Oct 2004 17:39

I admit that this is a pretty crazy idea and probably shows that I do way to many hallucinogenic drugs but have you considered the idea of talking to her and telling her how you feel and finding out how she feels?

shaggster · Post by **shaggster** » 15 Oct 2004 18:42

we talked last night, she told me she doesnt want to hurt him, i think she is scared that he will do something to her if she breaks up with him. And the fucker is fat so i can't reall do anything about it

zachatree · Post by **zachatree** » 15 Oct 2004 19:02

I admit that this is a pretty crazy idea and probably shows that I do way to many hallucinogenic drugs

word.

Jeremy · Post by **Jeremy** » 15 Oct 2004 19:08

Zach - I hope you understood that that statement was me just being a dick and in reality I don't usually do any drugs at all except caffine and aspirin. Occasionally I do recreational drugs (including alcohol) but that's a fairly rare event. I don't think I've ever taken a hallucinogenic drug.

Sorry if I've disapointed you - try to remember that about 50% of what I post in the non footbag topics is bullshit including this entire post!

mosher · Post by **mosher** » 15 Oct 2004 19:10

Jeremy wrote:Zach - I hope you understood that that statement was me just being a dick and in reality I don't usually do any drugs at all except caffine and aspirin. Occasionally I do recreational drugs (including alcohol) but that's a fairly rare event. I don't think I've ever taken a hallucinogenic drug.

Sorry if I've disapointed you - try to remember that about 50% of what I post in the non footbag topics is bullshit including this entire post!

HAW!! What a zinger!

Talk to girls, they liiiike it.

zachatree · Post by **zachatree** » 15 Oct 2004 19:44

Jeremy wrote:Zach - I hope you understood that that statement was me just being a dick and in reality I don't usually do any drugs at all except caffine and aspirin. Occasionally I do recreational drugs (including alcohol) but that's a fairly rare event. I don't think I've ever taken a hallucinogenic drug.

Sorry if I've disapointed you - try to remember that about 50% of what I post in the non footbag topics is bullshit including this entire post!

your very confusseing man.

lightningbolt · Post by **lightningbolt** » 15 Oct 2004 21:09

I know it's hard but just talk to her.

Give her time. She might be very confused example: She really likes you but she also likes the other guy. She doesn't want to hurt anybody and she has no idea what to do. If it meant to be it will.

Tell her how you feel. Don't play games; straight up tell her that you like her.

Good luck!

Spadrick · Post by **Spadrick** » 15 Oct 2004 21:15

I agree with Melissa. Honesty is the best policy. Unless your last name starts with B and ends with Ush.

Shredster · Post by **Shredster** » 15 Oct 2004 23:11

Spadrick wrote:I agree with Melissa. Honesty is the best policy. Unless your last name starts with B and ends with Ush.

LOL

HG · Post by HG » 16 Oct 2004 09:00

O spadrick is talking about Matt Bollivonicush?

lol.

yea just go for the kill.. what i mean by that is, go for the girl, and kill the guy.

Iain · Post by **Iain** » 16 Oct 2004 09:19

And the fucker is fat so i can't reall do anything about it

kick him in the nuts!

crazydwarf · Post by **crazydwarf** » 16 Oct 2004 10:57

maybe we should form that footbag mafia, I think this idea has been mentioned before... then we could help our fellow footbagger in need, and... dispose of this trubblesome guy...

sniikeri · Post by **sniikeri** » 19 Oct 2004 06:46

My problem is that I don't know if the girl I like is still seeing one of my best friends...
We're quite close with this girl, we have fun together etc. but I wouldn't like to go and screw up myself when I find out that she's madly in love with my friend.

Complicated. I'd really like to know what women think inside of their sweet heads. I think I'll ask it from her.

Moxie · Post by **Moxie** » 19 Oct 2004 13:07

sniikeri wrote:Complicated. I'd really like to know what women think inside of their sweet heads.

I bet the reason that guys don't get the way girls think in these situations is becasue these girls don't even understand it themselves most of the time.