Friends in a car accsedent

zachatree · Post by **zachatree** » 16 Nov 2004 06:42

yesterday on there way home from school 4 of my friends had a horubule assedent, they went off the road in my friends sunfire doing about 90 and tryed to counter it and ran in to a Teleaphone pole, the car was in 3 peaces, luaran fooler, is dead she is the only one i didnt know 2 well she was new to are school. Jermey the drive is haveing hemerageing in his chest and is on life suport, steven who is a close friend since middle school, his legs are crushed and they do not think he will walk again, he is in critical care, and mike... mike was my best friend since i was in 7th grade when he moved here, he was a year older then me and i looked up to him in ever way, i started to skateboard bc mike skateing, some the funnest times in the 3 years i was skateing. Mike and me havent been as close in hanging out since drugs fucked both are lifes up. mikes face is hafe riped of they do not think he will ever talk again, his legs are as well crushed and dont think he will walk, he has over 30 broken bones, peaces of bones are out of his body and he has punchtuers in some organs. drive safe ppl !! this was a sober accsedent and im scared for my 3 friends lifes expestialy mike. i just want every one to pray for any ones familys who ever have to experiance something like this. its a quit day at school, exsept for the crying.

mc · Post by mc » 16 Nov 2004 06:56

hey zach,

i never know what to say about this kind of thing. I'm thinking of you, buddy. drop a line if you need to talk.

Chris Hanratty · Post by **Chris Hanratty** » 16 Nov 2004 09:50

I'm so sorry to hear about that. Three of my friends were in a car accident too just last week, but luckily it wasn't as bad as the one you just described. They were pulling out of a gas station turning left into a double lane. A person waved them on, but didn't know someone in the lane beside them was coming, they got t-boned. Luckily my friends car is a 95 (I think) Corolla and was made of steel, not much damage. The Hundai (sp) Accent however was ruined.

I hope your friends make a fast recovery.

QuantumBalance · Post by **QuantumBalance** » 16 Nov 2004 10:34

thats a really sad story.. but did you purposely try and spell words wrong? is this a psychology experiment? it was hard to take you seriously.. if im wrong then my bad

rye · Post by **rye** » 16 Nov 2004 12:20

damn sorry man...my thought's are with them...

Shredster · Post by **Shredster** » 16 Nov 2004 12:28

Damn man, I'm really sorry to hear about that.

Yeah, driving is no joke.

Hope you'll be okay. I'm sure you will be.

slapdash21 · Post by **slapdash21** » 16 Nov 2004 12:31

i hope everyone makes as much of a recovery as possible, as quickly as possible. it sucks so bad when bad shit happens to good people

Whatsfootbag? · Post by **Whatsfootbag?** » 16 Nov 2004 12:59

QuantumBalance wrote:thats a really sad story.. but did you purposely try and spell words wrong? is this a psychology experiment? it was hard to take you seriously.. if im wrong then my bad

i remember he was saying french is his first language,he's still having problems with spelling since he just learned english not to long ago i think...

sorry to hear man zach.ill keep em in my prayers..

zachatree · Post by **zachatree** » 16 Nov 2004 13:20

Whatsfootbag? wrote:
QuantumBalance wrote:thats a really sad story.. but did you purposely try and spell words wrong? is this a psychology experiment? it was hard to take you seriously.. if im wrong then my bad

i remember he was saying french is his first language,he's still having problems with spelling since he just learned english not to long ago i think...

sorry to hear man zach.ill keep em in my prayers..

i have knowen english since i was way young, but i have a hugh problem with spelling some times, i dont know im in special english classes at school and stuff i just dont seem to be improveing much, then again i see alot of change just from typeing so much on modified.

*news they are all doing ok they all made it threw seirgery, they are all going in an out of comas tho.... pray.

http://www.thewgalchannel.com/news/3922172/detail.html

i dont know what the pic is, my girl told me that the pic in the news paper was insane, the telephone pole cracked in hafe, and the car is so fucked up.

rye · Post by **rye** » 16 Nov 2004 14:41

"The 16-year-old driver, Jeremy Shott"

Man, the things you do when you first get your license, I hope other will learn from this...

I know I did a REALLy stupid thing 3 weeks after I got my license, blew through a stop sign at 70km/h and smoked a minivan, JUST missed t-boning him, got his back end, I had 3 others in my car, they were all wearing their seatbelts and luckily no one was hurt, that sure did teach me a lesson though....

Here's what happened to my car....

HG · Post by HG » 16 Nov 2004 14:52

haha you had a chevy nova

no va in spanish means doesnt go

quadgun · Post by **quadgun** » 16 Nov 2004 15:06

Hey zach sorry to hear about that ....
You should definetly take advantage of the counseling at your school.

rye · Post by **rye** » 16 Nov 2004 15:31

HenryG wrote:haha you had a chevy nova

no va in spanish means doesnt go

that doesnt apply to the pre-4 banger nova's tho, lol

FlexThis · Post by **FlexThis** » 16 Nov 2004 15:53

Iain · Post by **Iain** » 16 Nov 2004 16:10

slapdash wrote:it sucks so bad when bad shit happens to good people

zachatree wrote:this was a sober accsedent

I don't want to sound like an ass, but there is no other way to say this.

what the hell where they doing going 90 mph in PA? The max speed limit in PA is 65 and thats on the interstate. And I doubt he was on the interstate if he hit a tree. That is no accident.

Oh ya, lets feel bad for the driver because he is such a really good person if he's willing put 3 of his friends lives at risk just to get a small adrenaline rush. There is a reason we have speed limits. The only time cops don't care if u go over the speed limit is if weather conditions are good and the roads aren't too busy. And even then they only allow +10 mph. Yes it's tragic that this kid fucked up his friends lives, and it is tragic that he decided to drive that fast. But its not tragic that he crashed. It was expected.

And if you want to say his friends were victims, then your wrong. Because they should have told him to slow down. I know when i'm in the car with my step-brother and he starts going way over the limit, i tell him i don't feel comfortable. He respects that and slows down.

I said what I said, because i feel it had to be said. You can't sit there and pity them for getting in a crash. You should pity them for making bad choices.

HG · Post by HG » 16 Nov 2004 16:22

word^^^^^

very good point, and so true, no one should go 90 mph

wtf were they thinking

Tommy · Post by **Tommy** » 16 Nov 2004 16:33

dude, im so sorry to hear that. my friend just got into an accedent (he hit a deer) his car has $1000 worth of damage. and then he and his mom got into an accedent alittle while ago so i sorta know how ya feel. ill try and give you a call if ya wanna talk. i feel for ya man.

crazydwarf · Post by **crazydwarf** » 16 Nov 2004 16:40

i just want every one to pray for any ones familys who ever have to experiance something like this.

I will be... hope everything gets better

slapdash21 · Post by **slapdash21** » 16 Nov 2004 17:32

Omnicriz wrote: I don't want to sound like an ass, but there is no other way to say this.

what the hell where they doing going 90 mph in PA? The max speed limit in PA is 65 and thats on the interstate. And I doubt he was on the interstate if he hit a tree. That is no accident.

Oh ya, lets feel bad for the driver because he is such a really good person if he's willing put 3 of his friends lives at risk just to get a small adrenaline rush. There is a reason we have speed limits. The only time cops don't care if u go over the speed limit is if weather conditions are good and the roads aren't too busy. And even then they only allow +10 mph. Yes it's tragic that this kid fucked up his friends lives, and it is tragic that he decided to drive that fast. But its not tragic that he crashed. It was expected.

And if you want to say his friends were victims, then your wrong. Because they should have told him to slow down. I know when i'm in the car with my step-brother and he starts going way over the limit, i tell him i don't feel comfortable. He respects that and slows down.

I said what I said, because i feel it had to be said. You can't sit there and pity them for getting in a crash. You should pity them for making bad choices.

now doesnt seem like the time to be making judgments like this. maybe it wasnt a smart thing to do, but you can still feel bad for the people's friends who have to deal with the aftermath of decisions like this. whats done is done...now is time to hope everyone's situations improve, and be there for people involved, it isnt time to ask what the people involved were thinking.

Iain · Post by **Iain** » 16 Nov 2004 17:43

yes it is time. You aren't going to learn from these people's mistakes if you call it an accident. Because an accident implies nothing could have been done to prevent it and it was out of their hands. If you aren't going to aknowledge the mistake made, then everything they're suffering through is meaningless. Pointless.

I know I didn't mention this in my earlier post and i probably should have. I do feel bad that someone close to you has been seriously injured and put into a critical state. And I do hope they do recover so then mabey they can have a chance to learn from their own mistakes and mabey help others learn from their mistakes too. No matter how bad things may get, there almost always is something good that can come out of them.

Bad things happen. You can't always stop them. But how you respond to them is most important.