Friends in a car accsedent

rye · Post by **rye** » 16 Nov 2004 18:57

Omnicriz wrote:yes it is time. You aren't going to learn from these people's mistakes if you call it an accident. Because an accident implies nothing could have been done to prevent it and it was out of their hands. If you aren't going to aknowledge the mistake made, then everything they're suffering through is meaningless. Pointless.

I know I didn't mention this in my earlier post and i probably should have. I do feel bad that someone close to you has been seriously injured and put into a critical state. And I do hope they do recover so then mabey they can have a chance to learn from their own mistakes and mabey help others learn from their mistakes too. No matter how bad things may get, there almost always is something good that can come out of them.

Bad things happen. You can't always stop them. But how you respond to them is most important.

I'm sorry, but you DO sound like an ass.

You're saying that the 3 other people in the car aren't a victim? You're ignorant. Especially the girl who died in this accident, she was apparently the "new" kid to the area, do you think the driver cared if she was scared because he was driving too fast, do you think he would care if she said slow down?? How do you know they didnt say slow down??

zachatree · Post by **zachatree** » 16 Nov 2004 18:59

Omnicriz wrote:yes it is time. You aren't going to learn from these people's mistakes if you call it an accident. Because an accident implies nothing could have been done to prevent it and it was out of their hands. If you aren't going to aknowledge the mistake made, then everything they're suffering through is meaningless. Pointless.

I know I didn't mention this in my earlier post and i probably should have. I do feel bad that someone close to you has been seriously injured and put into a critical state. And I do hope they do recover so then mabey they can have a chance to learn from their own mistakes and mabey help others learn from their mistakes too. No matter how bad things may get, there almost always is something good that can come out of them.

Bad things happen. You can't always stop them. But how you respond to them is most important.

1 it was a telephone poll, 2 we farmers have straight roads, easy on tracktors/car trapic, and 3 its your words, i dont really want to argee the case of shottis speeding, i was at the seen to day, the pole is Cracked in hafe, and the car trabled to the famers entrance, like 50 feet away from the telephone pole... if not more. The roads very straight but its a farm road and has a few lumps in it, i think he lost it on it and hit the pole. i also seen the car, its got a tarp over it bc there is so much blood in it, but it looks insane, so scary. Looks like a roller coaster under a blanket.

I havent been this low for a while

Hey zach sorry to hear about that ....
You should definetly take advantage of the counseling at your school.

i have went, it helped alot more then i tought, there was like 30 kids in the same room at the same time and every one was all helping each other, kids i normaly hated i was comforting to day. It was a really different day to day at school.

shaggster · Post by **shaggster** » 16 Nov 2004 21:04

this past january a friend of mine and his cousin were coming home in his cousins car, they hit an ice patch passing another vehicle. Mike my friend wasnt wearing a seatbelt and was ejected through the passenger side window, when the authorities arrived they claimed him dead to massive brain damage, they said he was better off or his life would have been horrible. His cousin suffered minor injuries. They moved all of the important events back, because his funeral and all that stuff. The next day of school was so sad, i think about everyone who knew him was crying, school hasnt been the same since.

lightningbolt · Post by **lightningbolt** » 16 Nov 2004 21:42

God, I'm really sorry Zach. I never know what to say. What is there to say? I just hope that your frineds are okay.

QuantumBalance · Post by **QuantumBalance** » 16 Nov 2004 22:07

I'm sorry about what I said about the spelling.

I'm more sorry that your friends are hurt. Maybe they will become great at something that they wouldn't have had become great at ? Really, we can never know. Maybe bring one of them a good book.

Seath · Post by **Seath** » 16 Nov 2004 22:43

I'm so sorry to hear you have to deal with this Zach, stay positive man.

hacksterbator · Post by **hacksterbator** » 16 Nov 2004 23:45

for sure, keep your chin up man! i hope they pull through. kick the bag alot, it helps when venting.

zachatree · Post by **zachatree** » 17 Nov 2004 03:50

your guys are the best, modified rocks!

Spadrick · Post by **Spadrick** » 17 Nov 2004 04:36

Each time you step into a passengers seat, you are putting your life in the hands of the driver.

Zach, I know what it is like to lose a friend at a young age, and have friends seriously injured. I hope that they recover quickly, and if you are really torn up about this thing, go take advantage of the counciling available to you. I used to think that counciling was bullshit, but it really isn't. It helps to get what you feel out in the open rather then bottling it up inside.

I don't pray, but my thoughts are with you and your classmates this week.

carl winslow · Post by **carl winslow** » 17 Nov 2004 12:01

sorry for your loss, i hope everyone gets better.
Drive Safe Everyone!

mosher · Post by **mosher** » 17 Nov 2004 12:58

*hug*

zachatree · Post by **zachatree** » 17 Nov 2004 14:23

means alot tom *hug and a thank you