Senor Grommet wrote:1st: if you already consider a girl a friend (think about it), chances are she considers you the same and thats all she wants from you. If you are still within the first few days/weeks of getting to know her, you gotta tell her you like her, thats she's beautiful, and that you want to get to know her better right away! Don't enter the dreaded friend zone or you're sure to get those "sorry friend" answers. Thats my advice.
You just have to be confident. Get over the thought of a girl saying no. Rejection not that bad, humiliation doesn't last long at all and it is sooooooooooooooo worth it if she says yes.
The worst that can happen is they say no, and then you never have to talk to them again.
yeah but sometimes if you are friends but you flirt and stuff it kinda turns into a relationship if you know what im sayin. like you both begin to like eachother or she begins to like you what ever.
I just have to say I hate loosing a good shredder to a girlfriend!
They stop showing up to shred sessions... too busy with the girlfriend to play footbag! Then when they start showing up again you know the relationship is over and they are kicking themselves for taking months off from footbag for some girl!
I'll tell you Daryl's strategy. He offered to teach me doubles!
How about playing footbag with your potential girlfriend? If she will play, you know she's cool and you have something to do together besides bowling. Now you have the best of both worlds
Better yet, don't wait for everything else to fail, just get the guitar. Practice hard. Women cannot resist. At least, some of them can't. And that's what counts.
Yeah but all of us who are worth while can resist a guy who plays guitar.
"I contend we are both atheists, I just believe in one fewer god than you do. When you understand why you dismiss all the other possible gods, you will understand why I dismiss yours."
I just try to be cool, calm, and collected. Just be yourself and try not to say anything offensive/stupid. There's always a girl who will truly like you for you.