TwoZee's

Iron Clad Ben · Post by **Iron Clad Ben** » 01 Apr 2007 08:07

Dude that sucks somethin awful mano. I've been with my gf 2 years too. If that happened to me I would be devastated. Women ain't nothin but trouble sometimes

Zjeezy · Post by **Zjeezy** » 02 Apr 2007 05:03

I dont know what to do, I havent been able to eat or sleep since she told me. She wants to get back together, she wants me to forgive her and say that everything is alright, but I cant and its not. I want to be with her really bad, I wish she wouldnt have cheated on me.

I have talked to her once since she told me, and it was more or less just me yelling at her. I cant get it out of my mind. I tried to play footbag yesterday and all I could think about was her having sex with this guy.

I feel like shit, I wish this would have never happend. I wish I could still be with her.

The Actual Sized E · Post by **The Actual Sized E** » 02 Apr 2007 16:02

Man...... That's one of the worst pains you can feel. I'm so sorry to hear about it. I know it doesn't matter much now, but it will dull with time, and the less contact you have with her now, the faster it will happen.

So, I'm not going to try to tell you what to do now, that's something very personal to you, but I can tell you a little about my experiences with a similar situation. You've met my gf, we've been together off and on for 2 and a half years. A little over a month into the relationship she got drunk and slept with an ex. I didn't find out about it until a month later, and it hurt like hell, as I'm sure you know. It's been over two years now, we've broken up a couple times over unrelated matters, but we're more or less still together. The initial pain lasted a while, but not too long. The trust on the other hand never fully healed, it might be one of those things that never does. If you love her and want to stay with her, just consider that the relationship might be forever changed. The best advice I can give you would be to not handle the situation like I did which was to decide to stay with her and try and make things work and then cheat on her for revenge

. You'll feel a lot better initially, but it'll just further fuck everything up in the long run.

Anyway, regardless of what you choose, the best medicine for a time like this is a cross-country road trip to Miami with the fellas, where everything looks like this:

Good luck man, I hope to see you soon.

CIC flurry · Post by **CIC flurry** » 02 Apr 2007 19:24

Only time heals, as they say. You won't be able to distract yourself with footbag or tv or food or friends or anything, you will constantly think about it for a while. The pain will lessen with time. Don't make any rash decisions without taking at least a week for yourself. Lots of us here wish you the best, big pony.

~tom

PegLegHolly · Post by **PegLegHolly** » 02 Apr 2007 19:32

lol the middle girl in that picture has a shit stain on her leg
nasty birthmarks

zach, i agree that you need to take some time to yourself. i wouldnt rush into any decisions on stay with her or trying to make it work yet. maybe you should give her a couple weeks to think about what she did and what she wants... if she still is loyal in a month, then figure things out then. in the mean time you should do some things you enjoy that you couldnt do with her because she didnt like it. you seemed like you had fun when you went snowboarding with your friend...

im sorry this all happened to you.

edit: you deserve a girl that treats you like a king.

david · Post by **david** » 02 Apr 2007 19:56

sorry.

Oroza · Post by **Oroza** » 03 Apr 2007 03:57

you'll be over it when i hit nemesis.

Zeke · Post by **Zeke** » 03 Apr 2007 09:45

Damn, you ain't even giving my man any hope

Don't listen to Al, just think about the fun we'll have in Miami

Oroza · Post by **Oroza** » 04 Apr 2007 00:47

....you'll see

Zjeezy · Post by **Zjeezy** » 04 Apr 2007 06:00

Thanks everyone for the kind words.

Im getting through it. I hate bragging and shit like that but I handle situations better than any of my freinds. I have always tried to be really strong pyhsically and mentally. Too bad im still a weak little bitch when it comes to the physical stuff. Henry could probably beat me in arm wrestling.

A lot of my Ex-Girlfreinds friends have had a lot of nice things to say that have made me feel better. People I didnt even know until I started dating her. I heard things like, "people thought you where the best boyfreind", and other things like "you where so good to her there was no reason for this".

I dont see us getting back together but I see both of us growing a lot from this.

Been doing a lot to try and keep busy and keep my mind off of it. I have been getting up a running everyday. The first day I ran for an hour straight. The next day about a half an hour. My legs really hurt, I just bought some running shoes yesterday so that should help.

Having a session today with the Michigan Footbag Club. I havent played footbag since she cheated on me. So I think I really need this.

Im gonna be alright.

Cant wait for Miami.

Zjeezy · Post by **Zjeezy** » 04 Apr 2007 07:21

Heres a pic from the mall yesterday

ObArA'BaRs · Post by **ObArA'BaRs** » 07 Apr 2007 09:42

CIC flurry · Post by **CIC flurry** » 08 Apr 2007 04:23

Sporatical_Distractions · Post by **Sporatical_Distractions** » 09 Apr 2007 06:40

You look so different with short hair

Zjeezy · Post by **Zjeezy** » 10 Apr 2007 08:00

had a good session yesterday, and I feel like posting some highlights.

a really clean fusion
mullet bsos
pdx dlo > tapdown > rpt
stepping ss mirage > legbeater > rpt
flipside atomic drifter > string with blury torque
spikehammer bsos
ripped warrior bsos
spinning osis > zooming osis bs
fog > pixie DOD (my first fearless triple dex combo)
flip spinnng and flip pixie set midstring

Made a nice easter dinner at my house on sunday and had some people over. TWAS NICE.

kyle · Post by **kyle** » 10 Apr 2007 09:05

fetusmaster wrote:flip pixie set midstring

Nice

CIC flurry · Post by **CIC flurry** » 10 Apr 2007 09:16

that's some insane shit. bsos'ed like a mo.

Zjeezy · Post by **Zjeezy** » 16 Apr 2007 07:56

Went to Chicago this weekend to play some footbag. I had a really good time. But it was really cold.

Nathan talked about being a vegetarian, a lot of his points where really good. and he is vegetarian for a lot of different reasons than most people. It has me considering going vegie, but I think it would be hard with 2 roomates and I would have to buy all of my own food instead of us splitting the cost of things.

potato and garlic pizza?

it was weird
Ham and Pineapple?

DA BOMB

On the train back home I noticed that there was a lot of trash next to the tracks, Like A lot. It sickens me how dirty some of this planet it. How hard is it to get out of your seat and go throw something in the trash. Not that hard. If we all helped a little the world would be a much nicer place. Im thinking about adopting a highway.

As far as shred goes. I played alright. It was too cold for my liking. My knees kept going numb so I couldnt play very well. But I still manage some good strings and combos.

And I even had fun playing 4 square. For the first time ever. I played quite a bit on saturday.

I want a bearded Dragon

Sporatical_Distractions · Post by **Sporatical_Distractions** » 16 Apr 2007 18:05

Nice session hilights!

Pineapple is pretty much the best topping period

Zjeezy · Post by **Zjeezy** » 17 Apr 2007 04:22

Pineapple rocks your socks.

Had a session yesterday. Started off really slow and I had a hard time warming up. So I schooled a lot of basics and did a lot of drills to get warmed up.

Once I was warm I decided to try something new. My stepping set is easily my best set (both sides) and most used set (both sides). I have pretty much hit all of my downtime components from stepping.

So I played all day without using and stepping. By doing this I was hoping to School other things that needed work, and more importantly, increase variety in my runs.

I put a lot of atomics in the runs. lots more ducks and a lot more variety of just things like drifters and whirls and DLO's.

It ended up being a really good session.

toe set whirling swirl
superfly
some really long runs

I liked doing this. It was a fun change to break up my normal shred. The only problem was a lot of my runs where a lot more "bopy".

yesterday would have been 25 months