HELP!!!!

axelmagic · Post by **axelmagic** » 16 Sep 2007 06:08

Ok so there is this girl I really like but she is practiaclly my best friend that is a girl. And I am trying to think of a way to ask her out ( i doesnt seem right to just walk up to a girl and ask them do you want to go out with me I dont like that) so I dont know what to do cause if she says no then it will screw up our friend ship and I dont want that to happen but then she could also say yes. I have been searching poems online and found a few I liked. Do you guys have any ideas for a special way I could ask her out

HG · Post by HG » 16 Sep 2007 06:17

Write a poem about her that really eccentuates her best attributes.

Sneak into her room one night, hide in her closet, and place the poem on her forehead, securing it with a rubberband. When she wakes up, she will read the poem and get the message.

axelmagic · Post by **axelmagic** » 16 Sep 2007 06:26

Ive tried to write a poem with her best qualities but the problems is I just cant think when It comes to that stuff but I keep trying I will write all her best qualities and put them in a poem. Also I thought what I will do is give the principal the poem and a rose and have him tape it to her locker when every one is out of the school so when she comes to school the next day it is no her locker and she can read it.

what u think?

Grade Zero · Post by **Grade Zero** » 16 Sep 2007 07:25

axelmagic wrote:Ive tried to write a poem with her best qualities but the problems is I just cant think when It comes to that stuff but I keep trying I will write all her best qualities and put them in a poem. Also I thought what I will do is give the principal the poem and a rose and have him tape it to her locker when every one is out of the school so when she comes to school the next day it is no her locker and she can read it.

what u think?

nice

but I think you should ask him to put it inside her locker, so no one can walk up and steal it. Some people are jerks like that

axelmagic · Post by **axelmagic** » 16 Sep 2007 07:32

the problem with that is the only way he can go into her loicker is he has the right of suspision such as he thinks she has drugs or alchohol or somthing

Post by **Zac Miley** » 16 Sep 2007 07:34

Dude.

Just give her the poem. If you hide poems for people to find, then they'll think you're a pansy.

Also, don't ask a bunch of footbaggers for girl advice. They'll just mess with you.

Grade Zero · Post by **Grade Zero** » 16 Sep 2007 07:50

Isilwar wrote:
They'll just mess with you.

Who would do such a thing?

King Monkey · Post by **King Monkey** » 16 Sep 2007 08:01

How old are you?

axelmagic · Post by **axelmagic** » 16 Sep 2007 08:09

i wont give exact age so i will say 11-14

dp · Post by dp » 16 Sep 2007 08:17

Get some balls and ask her out.

axelmagic · Post by **axelmagic** » 16 Sep 2007 08:20

i am but im gonna do it in a better way than just forcing a question on here

Jeremy · Post by **Jeremy** » 16 Sep 2007 08:31

Noah Fry has the best advice for girls (Dylan Fry's brother). You walk up to them, you undo your fly and you flop it out. If they're into you, you score, if they're not, you find out straight away. No silly games, no wasting time writing poems; girls love a guy who is direct.

axelmagic · Post by **axelmagic** » 16 Sep 2007 08:34

professor · Post by **professor** » 16 Sep 2007 12:13

Dude, if you're not even 15 there's no real reason to go out with a girl. You can't drive, you're not getting married anytime soon, and you still have all of high school to worry about girls. I'd say just be her friend, but let her know you like her.

Plus a girlfriend only takes time away from footbag...unless she plays too. If that's the case, marry her now.

Bringerofpie · Post by **Bringerofpie** » 16 Sep 2007 13:42

Jeremy wrote:Noah Fry has the best advice for girls (Dylan Fry's brother). You walk up to them, you undo your fly and you flop it out. If they're into you, you score, if they're not, you find out straight away. No silly games, no wasting time writing poems; girls love a guy who is direct.

I was just about to give that same advice. Although I prefer "whip" to "flop."

Wu_ · Post by **Wu_** » 16 Sep 2007 16:03

Jeremy wrote:Noah Fry has the best advice for girls (Dylan Fry's brother). You walk up to them, you undo your fly and you flop it out. If they're into you, you score, if they're not, you find out straight away. No silly games, no wasting time writing poems; girls love a guy who is direct.

Laughed so hard tears came out.

Dude your young so you don't have enough experience on this type of thing. Usually you need to get them in a nice conversation and than when it comes to an absolut halt you pop out a question like "Hey have you ever thought of me in a pink dress?" ...If she says no - your in.. If its yes - than you might want to find another girl

No but seriously ...I think hinting it might be a good way... something very obvious but not direct... gonna have to find your own way how to do it. Direct things like "you wanna be my girl" or something like that only works when they are way drunk

james_dean · Post by **james_dean** » 16 Sep 2007 16:39

Bringerofpie wrote:
Jeremy wrote:Noah Fry has the best advice for girls (Dylan Fry's brother). You walk up to them, you undo your fly and you flop it out. If they're into you, you score, if they're not, you find out straight away. No silly games, no wasting time writing poems; girls love a guy who is direct.
I was just about to give that same advice. Although I prefer "whip" to "flop."

no, flop. definately flop.

I dunno if I'd go too overboard. If she thinks you're majorly in love with her it'll probably freak her out, if you just hint that you'd be up for something more than friends then it shouldn't do too much damage if she says no. It all depends on the girl... I made it abundantly clear to my best friend all through yr 12, she'd cut me off if I ever brought it up but other than that we were fine.

Also prof: while that may be true... remember what it's like to be young and in love

HG · Post by HG » 16 Sep 2007 16:57

Glory hole!

SlashC · Post by **SlashC** » 16 Sep 2007 17:08

The best solution to use in junior high is to have a mutual friend casually ask the girl if she "likes" you. If the girl isn't digging it no worries, the mutual friend can say something like "Oh too bad I thought you guys would be great together!" without indicating your more-than-friends interest, and you can remain friends with the girl. If she IS digging you well then my friend you might just be holding hands pretty soon. That's practically first base (be sure to always wear gloves).

BainbridgeShred · Post by **BainbridgeShred** » 16 Sep 2007 19:31

The best solution to use in junior high is to have a mutual friend casually ask the girl if she "likes" you. If the girl isn't digging it no worries, the mutual friend can say something like "Oh too bad I thought you guys would be great together!" without indicating your more-than-friends interest, and you can remain friends with the girl. If she IS digging you well then my friend you might just be holding hands pretty soon. That's practically first base (be sure to always wear gloves).

Great advice.

Though, asking a bunch of people between 15-25 advice on girls isn't goign to apply to your situation. I remember that girls changed a lot in those years as far as what they're looking for. I can understand everyone reading this thread and Alex talking about giving her a poem and whatnot and everyone thinking he's going to fail, but if you're in the 11-12 range fuck it might work broheim. But shit yo Slash gave good advice. Remember though, sometimes girls aren't attracted to their guy friends at the same ratio the guy is attracted ot the girl friend. There are plenty of fish. Don't put all your eggs in one basket broheim, and chances are if she turns you down then sees you with another broad she might have some jealously and start wanting you broheim. i KNOW YOU NOT A PIMP BUT PIMP REMEMBER WHAT I TAUGHT YA!