Chem Is Try

QuantumBalance · Post by **QuantumBalance** » 08 Feb 2008 06:11

Hey.

I have a question for you all. How important is physical chemistry in a relationship? Obviously a relationship with someone who looks really good, but whose personality doesnt match yours is a waste of time and doomed to fail. Once a person has been through enough real relationships they realize they are looking for certain things and they can start being more choosy with who they date so as to not lead anyone on or cause unneeded heartbreak. Makes sense yah? What do you do though, if you meet someone who is really cool but doesnt look the way you had imagined aka the physical chemistry isnt there? For myself I think that is an important part of a relationship. I'm lucky to say that Ive dated some pretty hot ladies, and "hot"ness aside Ive dated some ladies that I have amazing physical chemistry with. AKA each other's BO was a turn on. That will probly only make sense to people who arent virgins. I could totally get more personal and mature audiences only here but I think you get the point. So my question restated is: What experiences have ya'll had dating people whos physical chemistry or attraction wasnt there, but the personality was?

For me I just don't think I could because I wanna blankity blank (kiss - smell - breath in - etc) every square inch of my lover's skin. I just am not able to lick my way down a fatty's body. Also fattys dont smell the same to me. Also fat girls have gross hoohoonaanaas. Not that I would know... maybe.

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Um. If you need to change out girl for boy in this post go ahead. I am asking everyone.

ELLIPTICAL CROSS TRAINER OUT!

ps They say when you grow old with someone, the ability to communicate and have enjoyable conversation is paramount. But If I have to stand on a chair before I dive in to the rippling swimming pool that is my woman, then thats chairamount and I don't like that.

QuantumBalance · Post by **QuantumBalance** » 08 Feb 2008 06:15

Cuz Ps3 probly rules but WII is hot AND has Mario Universe!! You get what I'm Saying?

ted · Post by **ted** » 08 Feb 2008 07:48

I haven't played Wii yet but Ken seems to like it.

Jeremy · Post by **Jeremy** » 08 Feb 2008 14:05

For me, eating healthy food, getting lots of exercise and being disciplined in my behaviour is really important. I think we live in a world of gross over consumption and also that life is a lot more enjoyable if you're fit and healthy. At the same time, I also think we live in a very materialistic and superficial world, and I hate that as well. Both these aspects are part of people's personalities but they're reflected in their physical appearance, and I think I'd look for somebody is both fit and healthy, but doesn't spend hours worrying about what they look like, or how many grams of fat is in their meal. I wouldn't want to date a girl who loves McDonalds but doesn't eat it because she thinks it will make her fat. I don't really care if she eats it or not, but it's the reasons why she does or doesn't that is important. I think physical attraction is somewhat important, but almost every relationship I've been in, I've ended because of the person's personality, and values, which conflicted with mine. I think I've reached a stage in my life where I'm looking for "the right person," if such a person exists (I may have even found her, I'm not sure).

BainbridgeShred · Post by **BainbridgeShred** » 08 Feb 2008 14:48

Obviously, their are degree's on a scale in an issue like this. I could never date someone I didn't have some semblance of a physical attraction to. I've been very interested in a lot of girls who weren't exactly "hot", but I was always able to convince myself they were after liking them for their personality, but can only think of one who I've actually had a relationship with. I guess that says that looks are pretty important to me.

QuantumBalance · Post by **QuantumBalance** » 09 Feb 2008 13:18

Wow Guys, thanks for two really great responses. I really mean that

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gMoney · Post by **gMoney** » 09 Feb 2008 17:57

I wouldn't want to date a girl who loves McDonalds but doesn't eat it because she thinks it will make her fat. I don't really care if she eats it or not, but it's the reasons why she does or doesn't that is important.

You can't have your cake and eat it too, goddamn it.

But uh, yeah. I basically agree with everyone, with everyone being the two people that stated their opinions above. And wii's pretty fun, I haven't played Mario Galaxy but I heard it was good. I'm just waiting for friggen smash bros

BenRea · Post by **BenRea** » 10 Feb 2008 09:58

what about the personality not being there but the looks were.

she was a hot fuck but she talked like an idiot. i just told he to shut up and start fuckin'.

QuantumBalance · Post by **QuantumBalance** » 12 Feb 2008 11:29

That is undesirable to me.

Zac Jackson · Post by **Zac Jackson** » 12 Feb 2008 12:26

I cant date someone with a good personality and no appeal, call me shallow be they have to atleast cute for me to date them. I agree with Ben Rea