I often find myself so attracted to someone that I would do crazy things just to have sex with them, just to find a weird feeling afterwards, of disatisfaction.slapdash21 wrote:i think for some reason i like oral more in my mind than i do in practice, because i thinki love getting oral, but im disappointed everytime i do. yeah, i definitely believe thats partly related to the abilities of those few who have actually made the mistake of so gratifying me, but i think almost nothing sexual is as good in reality as you imagine it being in your head, even after you first experience it.
Sure, there's often very satisfactory sex. and then there's the crazy, "Oh my god I'm gonna die if I try to move a muscle." satisfactory sex, and that one's pretty rare in my experience. But pretty commonly, I find that after sex, I roll over, I stare at the ceiling, and I think, "That could've been better somehow." Or I just feel like... drained, and disinterested in anything at the time being, including the person I'm with.
I assume this as to be connected with hormones. I'm pretty sure that before sex, they're just going ape-shit, and after the "release" they all just... kick back and stop moving around, and then that makes you lose interest in anything sexual.
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Here's a good example, IMO. Before sex, I feel like I could do anything any girl asked me to (sexually.), and I mean anything. Afterwards, say it's a tag team kind a thing, "I do you, then you do me," I just lose any desire, or even the ability to endure something such as "eating out." All interest and desire goes out the window, and all of sudden paying the favor back feels like a chore.
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So here's the question.
Do you ever, or often lose any or all interest in sexual activities after sex?
(Wow... didn't know you couldn't make poll topics in the Discussion section.)
) Guys always seem to caught up in just sticking it in and pounding away. How boring is that.....you must find many ways to pleasure your woman, and all this will be reciprocated. Nothing make a woman want to blow/f%@$/whateverthefuckyoiuareinto than making her come over and over.