I was there when my brother posted it up. He did a search for something like "vulva operation" and came up with that. I told him not to post it, he did anyway. I posted saying it should be taken down, but was ignored.
The picture name is
http://www.jeffersonhospital.org/obgyn/ ... Uterus.jpg
The only reason it has stayed up for so long is because nobody knew what it was, and I didn't really want to openly say because I thought a mod would have deleted it and I thought people would be less disgusted if they didn't know what they were looking at.
And of course if you look at the posts, it very quickly disappeared from view until my brother's friend from another forum (dekargh) bumped it - who knows why, since neither of them play footbag or know anything about footbag.
edit; And while I would be opposed to censorship of this in some circumstances, it was clearly posted with the purpose of disgusting people and disrupting the forum, and this whole topic should be deleted and people who are clear trolls, like Texta - who have never offered anything useful to the forum, who have never engaged in any serious discussion, who have never posted anything about footbag, who I'm telling you, whatever he may say, don't play footbag, and whose only posts here are to attack people or to be disruptive should be banned. I can't think of a clearer possible case of being a troll. If he's not banned, nobody should ever be banned for anything.
Check out my new bag
Bizarre.
1. Jeremy claims that this is a picture of a vagina. Then he says I did a search for "vulva operation" and that it's a uterus. For anyone with even a basic understanding of anatomy, this is the equivalent of suggesting that something is a picture of someone's oesophagus, and then saying it was found looking for pictures of mouths before coming to rest on it being a stomach.
2. As usual Jeremy's view is totally clouded by his personal issues that he can't let go of. I've been posting in largely the same style since I first joined up some 6 years ago and he's only complaining now because he's totally unable to be objective. You'll notice that prior to his brain explosion he's happily participated in other jocular threads that I've created (eg ITT Pictures of Hay) and it's purely for his own personal reasons that he's making this outrageous request.
3. Since Jeremy and I haven't had a conversation in about 2 years, I'm not really sure by what basis he can know anything about what I do in my spare time. But I guess the question worth asking is why would I have joined up to this forum 6 years ago (well before Jeremy's mental breakdown) and continued to (admittedly irregularly) post here across those 6 years if I didn't have an interest in footbag??
4. I am unaware of a rule that says you have to post about footbag to be a member. While I'm happy to admit that being a full time parent and law student as well as working two jobs means that I am not able to participate in footbag discussions as much as I might like (it's just lucky I have a supporting family. Oh except one!), I don't believe that is a basis for which I should be excluded.
5. If the moderation team has a problem with the way I post, I am happy to modify my behaviour at their request. As I'm sure they're aware I already have done so (See Jeremy's dummy spit on his blog).
6. I have no idea who "Dekargh" is, nor have I requested any of my friends join up to this forum. It is of course typical of Jeremy to launch into these constant ad hominem attacks. If he doesn't like what I write or anyone else, then he's free to not read anything he doesn't want to.
1. Jeremy claims that this is a picture of a vagina. Then he says I did a search for "vulva operation" and that it's a uterus. For anyone with even a basic understanding of anatomy, this is the equivalent of suggesting that something is a picture of someone's oesophagus, and then saying it was found looking for pictures of mouths before coming to rest on it being a stomach.
2. As usual Jeremy's view is totally clouded by his personal issues that he can't let go of. I've been posting in largely the same style since I first joined up some 6 years ago and he's only complaining now because he's totally unable to be objective. You'll notice that prior to his brain explosion he's happily participated in other jocular threads that I've created (eg ITT Pictures of Hay) and it's purely for his own personal reasons that he's making this outrageous request.
3. Since Jeremy and I haven't had a conversation in about 2 years, I'm not really sure by what basis he can know anything about what I do in my spare time. But I guess the question worth asking is why would I have joined up to this forum 6 years ago (well before Jeremy's mental breakdown) and continued to (admittedly irregularly) post here across those 6 years if I didn't have an interest in footbag??
4. I am unaware of a rule that says you have to post about footbag to be a member. While I'm happy to admit that being a full time parent and law student as well as working two jobs means that I am not able to participate in footbag discussions as much as I might like (it's just lucky I have a supporting family. Oh except one!), I don't believe that is a basis for which I should be excluded.
5. If the moderation team has a problem with the way I post, I am happy to modify my behaviour at their request. As I'm sure they're aware I already have done so (See Jeremy's dummy spit on his blog).
6. I have no idea who "Dekargh" is, nor have I requested any of my friends join up to this forum. It is of course typical of Jeremy to launch into these constant ad hominem attacks. If he doesn't like what I write or anyone else, then he's free to not read anything he doesn't want to.
I'm sure I'll regret this, but whatever.
1. What was your purpose of posting that picture in the "bags and equipment" section of this forum?
2 and 5. You haven't changed your posting style since joining modified and you've already changed your behaviour?
3 and 4. Ok, what footbag do you use? What shoes do you use? When and where did you get these? You don't have time to post about footbag because you have such a busy life, but you have time to post in this topic and to play footbag? When is the last time you played footbag and what moves did you hit? Are you capable of providing any kind of video?
6. So you posted quotes from this forum on another forum. On that other forum there is a person named Dekar. A couple of days later a person named "Dekargh" whose IP address puts him in the same state of Australia as the Dekar on your forum shows up here and posts exclusively in a topic that you started years ago, and you have no idea who this person named "Dekargh" is, or where they come from? Do I need to draw some kind of diagram.
My own point. You claim I've had a mental breakdown and your response is to attack me, insult me, dig up posts I've made months ago to attack me over them and you say that you have "no problem" with me. Do you think maybe my issue is not whether you have a problem with me or not, but the fact that I have a problem with you? Indeed my specific problem with you is that for years and years, way before this fight/feud/whatever you want to call it, your only interaction with me was to insult me, attack me, blackmail me (or at least that's what it felt like to me, no doubt you'll see things differently), expect my life to revolve around yours and blame me for things that are clearly your own responsibility. Now if you ever want me to "get over" this and have an opinion of you other than wanting to pretend that we're not related at all, the very least you could do is leave this forum. If you've genuinely been playing freestyle footbag over the last 2 years, that's great, but I think we both know the truth of that, and you're certainly not going to make me change my mind about that without some actual proof. If you can't be nice or at least polite, then I just don't want to have anything to do with you. If you leave me alone and give me some space then maybe eventually I'll change my mind, or start thinking that I'm wrong or that the negatives of avoiding you outweigh the positives - but at the moment based on your behaviour on this forum and the comments about what you've said about me on Hyperactive, online chat, facebook and in person to other people makes me feel completely vindicated in avoiding you as much as I can, and makes me want to do so even further. Of course you're entitled to debate everything I've said in this post, just as you told me how I felt when you tried to "fix" things was wrong. However please take my word for it that you telling me I am wrong about how I feel or any of what I've written will only strengthen my feelings and if you genuinely have "no problem" with me the only response from you that will be helpful will be you leaving here - no matter how wrong you think I am.
Indeed if you post any further on this forum, unless it's a genuine post about footbag, I'll take that as you accepting that you're happy with our current relationship and you want it to continue or get even worse.
Maybe that's false, but if I'm as mentally unstable as you apparently believe I am, then don't expect me to behave how you think I should. I'm telling you right now exactly how I'll behave. You are responsible for how you respond to this.
1. What was your purpose of posting that picture in the "bags and equipment" section of this forum?
2 and 5. You haven't changed your posting style since joining modified and you've already changed your behaviour?
3 and 4. Ok, what footbag do you use? What shoes do you use? When and where did you get these? You don't have time to post about footbag because you have such a busy life, but you have time to post in this topic and to play footbag? When is the last time you played footbag and what moves did you hit? Are you capable of providing any kind of video?
6. So you posted quotes from this forum on another forum. On that other forum there is a person named Dekar. A couple of days later a person named "Dekargh" whose IP address puts him in the same state of Australia as the Dekar on your forum shows up here and posts exclusively in a topic that you started years ago, and you have no idea who this person named "Dekargh" is, or where they come from? Do I need to draw some kind of diagram.
My own point. You claim I've had a mental breakdown and your response is to attack me, insult me, dig up posts I've made months ago to attack me over them and you say that you have "no problem" with me. Do you think maybe my issue is not whether you have a problem with me or not, but the fact that I have a problem with you? Indeed my specific problem with you is that for years and years, way before this fight/feud/whatever you want to call it, your only interaction with me was to insult me, attack me, blackmail me (or at least that's what it felt like to me, no doubt you'll see things differently), expect my life to revolve around yours and blame me for things that are clearly your own responsibility. Now if you ever want me to "get over" this and have an opinion of you other than wanting to pretend that we're not related at all, the very least you could do is leave this forum. If you've genuinely been playing freestyle footbag over the last 2 years, that's great, but I think we both know the truth of that, and you're certainly not going to make me change my mind about that without some actual proof. If you can't be nice or at least polite, then I just don't want to have anything to do with you. If you leave me alone and give me some space then maybe eventually I'll change my mind, or start thinking that I'm wrong or that the negatives of avoiding you outweigh the positives - but at the moment based on your behaviour on this forum and the comments about what you've said about me on Hyperactive, online chat, facebook and in person to other people makes me feel completely vindicated in avoiding you as much as I can, and makes me want to do so even further. Of course you're entitled to debate everything I've said in this post, just as you told me how I felt when you tried to "fix" things was wrong. However please take my word for it that you telling me I am wrong about how I feel or any of what I've written will only strengthen my feelings and if you genuinely have "no problem" with me the only response from you that will be helpful will be you leaving here - no matter how wrong you think I am.
Indeed if you post any further on this forum, unless it's a genuine post about footbag, I'll take that as you accepting that you're happy with our current relationship and you want it to continue or get even worse.
Maybe that's false, but if I'm as mentally unstable as you apparently believe I am, then don't expect me to behave how you think I should. I'm telling you right now exactly how I'll behave. You are responsible for how you respond to this.
It was obviously a bit of jovial fun. Don't take everything so seriously.Jeremy wrote:I'm sure I'll regret this, but whatever.
1. What was your purpose of posting that picture in the "bags and equipment" section of this forum?
Sorry, that was badly worded. I haven't changed my style, but after you went and cried to the mods I stopped posting in your blog.2 and 5. You haven't changed your posting style since joining modified and you've already changed your behaviour?
I have a few bags, but the one I use most is ironically one you stitched. It's filled with lead and is green and blue synthetic suede. I mostly play in my runners at the moment because I can't afford anything else.3 and 4. Ok, what footbag do you use? What shoes do you use? When and where did you get these? You don't have time to post about footbag because you have such a busy life, but you have time to post in this topic and to play footbag? When is the last time you played footbag and what moves did you hit? Are you capable of providing any kind of video?
No I'm not capable of videoing myself pay. I did give someone an interest free loan so they could buy themselves a video camera but that was all part of my nefarious plot.
I've never posted that information on a forum with a user named Dekar and while I do know of a forum user named Dekar it is my understanding that he no longer posts on any of the forums I post on.6. So you posted quotes from this forum on another forum. On that other forum there is a person named Dekar. A couple of days later a person named "Dekargh" whose IP address puts him in the same state of Australia as the Dekar on your forum shows up here and posts exclusively in a topic that you started years ago, and you have no idea who this person named "Dekargh" is, or where they come from? Do I need to draw some kind of diagram.
If you'd like to take a look, here's his profile:
http://www.hyper.com.au/forums/member.php?u=1454
You'll note that he last logged in on the 9-10-08.
tl;drMy own point. You claim I've had a mental breakdown and your response is to attack me, insult me, dig up posts I've made months ago to attack me over them and you say that you have "no problem" with me. Do you think maybe my issue is not whether you have a problem with me or not, but the fact that I have a problem with you? Indeed my specific problem with you is that for years and years, way before this fight/feud/whatever you want to call it, your only interaction with me was to insult me, attack me, blackmail me (or at least that's what it felt like to me, no doubt you'll see things differently), expect my life to revolve around yours and blame me for things that are clearly your own responsibility. Now if you ever want me to "get over" this and have an opinion of you other than wanting to pretend that we're not related at all, the very least you could do is leave this forum. If you've genuinely been playing freestyle footbag over the last 2 years, that's great, but I think we both know the truth of that, and you're certainly not going to make me change my mind about that without some actual proof. If you can't be nice or at least polite, then I just don't want to have anything to do with you. If you leave me alone and give me some space then maybe eventually I'll change my mind, or start thinking that I'm wrong or that the negatives of avoiding you outweigh the positives - but at the moment based on your behaviour on this forum and the comments about what you've said about me on Hyperactive, online chat, facebook and in person to other people makes me feel completely vindicated in avoiding you as much as I can, and makes me want to do so even further. Of course you're entitled to debate everything I've said in this post, just as you told me how I felt when you tried to "fix" things was wrong. However please take my word for it that you telling me I am wrong about how I feel or any of what I've written will only strengthen my feelings and if you genuinely have "no problem" with me the only response from you that will be helpful will be you leaving here - no matter how wrong you think I am.
Indeed if you post any further on this forum, unless it's a genuine post about footbag, I'll take that as you accepting that you're happy with our current relationship and you want it to continue or get even worse.
Maybe that's false, but if I'm as mentally unstable as you apparently believe I am, then don't expect me to behave how you think I should. I'm telling you right now exactly how I'll behave. You are responsible for how you respond to this.
I have no brother and I very much doubt anything you ever do will make me change my mind on that.
You like to think that it's all about you, but actions speak louder than words and I'm the one that let you live with me when you literally had no where else to go, I'm the one that lent you money so you could buy video cameras and shit. I'm the one that picked you up every week from the airport when you were doing milo demos. I'm the one that drove you everywhere. What do I have from you? A shitty footbag and some crappy dvds.
To be honest, if you died I would actually be happy. You're a stain. You're a leach and you're a shit person. The reason you've never had a meaningful relationship, the reason why you don't really have any close friends, the reason why you had to leave Melbourne, why even our parents kicked you out: It's because you just suck. I put up with you when no one else did and look how you repaid me. Get AIDS and die.
I'll do you a deal though, if you agree to spend one hour with Adelaide every month I will stop posting here. We can arrange it so you meet at Maureen's place and you never have to see me or Emma. Otherwise get used to it. Don't contact me. Talk to Maureen as an in between and take it from there.
Well you've answered that question.
Incidentally the main bag you play with is a lead only shot ultrasuede light bag that is over 3 years old. So we know you're a liar when you say you play footbag too.
Let me make this clear. I never want to see you, or any of your poor children ever. You posting on this forum was either a terrible mistake, or you came here just to make me hate you more and succeeded.
Incidentally the main bag you play with is a lead only shot ultrasuede light bag that is over 3 years old. So we know you're a liar when you say you play footbag too.
Let me make this clear. I never want to see you, or any of your poor children ever. You posting on this forum was either a terrible mistake, or you came here just to make me hate you more and succeeded.
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Blue_turnip
- Egyptian Footgod
- Posts: 1239
- Joined: 29 Nov 2004 03:55
- Location: Melbourne
I just want to say that just because this thread/that pic has been up for 3 years shouldn't make it more entitled to stay up.
Like at any legit forum the thread would be deleted and OP insta-banned. It's not even a matter of censorship, its just a matter of the thread being retarded and not contributing to the forum in any positive way at all.
FFS, lock and ban. Please.
Like at any legit forum the thread would be deleted and OP insta-banned. It's not even a matter of censorship, its just a matter of the thread being retarded and not contributing to the forum in any positive way at all.
FFS, lock and ban. Please.
Oliver Adams
Just one last post to clarify some things because I am slightly insecure I guess and can't help myself.
I have never been kicked out of home by my parents. That lie does not remotely have any grain of truth to it. I left home twice, both times on great terms with my parents, and I'm still on great terms with them. I have no idea what that lie was based on.
I would estimate I have 6 really close friends, who I'm able to discuss anything I want with, and also would tell me anything - 3 of which I've been friends with since primary school, one since highschool and 2 since leaving school. I have plenty of other friends - I don't feel having friends is a problem in my life at all. I certainly had the option of staying with them when I came to Hobart instead of my brother - they offered me that opportunity, but I chose to stay with my brother because he apparently didn't have a problem with it at the time.
I left Melbourne because an ex girlfriend killed herself and I found it very difficult to cope with. She certainly had many issues that I had no control over (such as being raped by a cousin, and her dad dying of cancer) but it's definitely the lowest point of my life, and there probably isn't a day that goes past where I don't think about it at least a little.
My brother blackmails me all the time, or used to until I stopped having anything to do with him. He drove me the 20 minute drive to the airport some 12 times (there and back for 6 weeks) 4 years ago, when I offered to get a taxi instead and when at times I brought back gifts etc. and now he expects me to be forever in his debt and doing things for him. He convinced me to play in his football team a couple of years ago, and then when I'd go around to go to training he'd say things like "I'll only give you a lift if you wash my dishes for me." Trivial yes, and I was happy to do it at the time, but he's definitely made me regret accepting anything from him, and even now he continues to use it as a weapon against me. In those "favours" and even in his attempt to "apologise" years ago, it really feels like manipulation to force me to behave in a certain way. These aren't things done out of good will, they're coercion so I'll do what he wants me to. I'm the opposite of that. If I do something nice for somebody, I'm doing it because I want to, and I'm not going to place obligations on them to reciprocate if they don't want to. I don't have any relationships like that. The same goes for apologies. When I say I'm sorry for something, it's because I'm sorry - saying I'm sorry and then demanding the person accept my apology and attacking them for not doing so would be meaningless - I'd be lying to say sorry in that case, and I wouldn't actually be sorry at all.
So yeah. I really am leaving now, and not coming back. I'm not going to look at this topic again. I may lurk in the video section occasionally. You can call this running away if you like, and maybe it is. But I don't see what else I can do. What can I say or do that changes my brother's behaviour? I once told him directly how I felt and that if he continued I'd cut him out of my life and he promised he'd change, but didn't. He said earlier on this forum that he had "no problem" with me, and then launched into that vitriolic attack above. If there's nothing I can do, and it doesn't seem to me that there is, and any contact with him brings me grief, it seems like avoiding that is far better than putting up with it. Given that he doesn't even read how I feel about this issue because my posts are "too long" clearly nothing positive can be achieved.
It is a shame the admin apparently didn't agree with me or wasn't active to ban him as the troll that he is, but I was intending on leaving anyway, as my signature says, so it's not really much of a loss.
I have never been kicked out of home by my parents. That lie does not remotely have any grain of truth to it. I left home twice, both times on great terms with my parents, and I'm still on great terms with them. I have no idea what that lie was based on.
I would estimate I have 6 really close friends, who I'm able to discuss anything I want with, and also would tell me anything - 3 of which I've been friends with since primary school, one since highschool and 2 since leaving school. I have plenty of other friends - I don't feel having friends is a problem in my life at all. I certainly had the option of staying with them when I came to Hobart instead of my brother - they offered me that opportunity, but I chose to stay with my brother because he apparently didn't have a problem with it at the time.
I left Melbourne because an ex girlfriend killed herself and I found it very difficult to cope with. She certainly had many issues that I had no control over (such as being raped by a cousin, and her dad dying of cancer) but it's definitely the lowest point of my life, and there probably isn't a day that goes past where I don't think about it at least a little.
My brother blackmails me all the time, or used to until I stopped having anything to do with him. He drove me the 20 minute drive to the airport some 12 times (there and back for 6 weeks) 4 years ago, when I offered to get a taxi instead and when at times I brought back gifts etc. and now he expects me to be forever in his debt and doing things for him. He convinced me to play in his football team a couple of years ago, and then when I'd go around to go to training he'd say things like "I'll only give you a lift if you wash my dishes for me." Trivial yes, and I was happy to do it at the time, but he's definitely made me regret accepting anything from him, and even now he continues to use it as a weapon against me. In those "favours" and even in his attempt to "apologise" years ago, it really feels like manipulation to force me to behave in a certain way. These aren't things done out of good will, they're coercion so I'll do what he wants me to. I'm the opposite of that. If I do something nice for somebody, I'm doing it because I want to, and I'm not going to place obligations on them to reciprocate if they don't want to. I don't have any relationships like that. The same goes for apologies. When I say I'm sorry for something, it's because I'm sorry - saying I'm sorry and then demanding the person accept my apology and attacking them for not doing so would be meaningless - I'd be lying to say sorry in that case, and I wouldn't actually be sorry at all.
So yeah. I really am leaving now, and not coming back. I'm not going to look at this topic again. I may lurk in the video section occasionally. You can call this running away if you like, and maybe it is. But I don't see what else I can do. What can I say or do that changes my brother's behaviour? I once told him directly how I felt and that if he continued I'd cut him out of my life and he promised he'd change, but didn't. He said earlier on this forum that he had "no problem" with me, and then launched into that vitriolic attack above. If there's nothing I can do, and it doesn't seem to me that there is, and any contact with him brings me grief, it seems like avoiding that is far better than putting up with it. Given that he doesn't even read how I feel about this issue because my posts are "too long" clearly nothing positive can be achieved.
It is a shame the admin apparently didn't agree with me or wasn't active to ban him as the troll that he is, but I was intending on leaving anyway, as my signature says, so it's not really much of a loss.